Single father and 4-year-old daughter ride in Lhasa
The pattern of parents is the starting point of children.
The vision of parents is the boundary of children.
——What can a 4-year-old okra mother do? Snack or play games? The 4-year-old girl went to Tibet on a bicycle with her father.
Recently, a video of a single father taking his 4-year-old daughter to Lhasa by bike became popular on the Internet.
In April this year, Ato, 26, made a bold decision to take his daughter on a bicycle to Tibet.
They set out from Dongguan with a total journey of more than 4000 kilometers, lasting 71 days.
Along the way, Ato recorded everything about him and his daughter with his mobile phone.
Under the blue sky and white clouds, they ran and rode horses.
They made a snowman together in a snow field 4000 meters above sea level.
When passing the Yunnan section, they had to push the bike forward because of the heavy load of the bike and the deformation of the rear wheel spokes.
Instead of crying, Doudou happily followed his father on his way: “You take me on an adventure, and I will accompany you to overcome difficulties!” Sometimes, Ah Dou teased his daughter and said, “Dad will buy a ticket to send you back, OK?” Doudou’s answer was always: “No, I will continue to ride with Dad.” No matter whether it is hard to travel, or wind and rain, the 4-year-old Doudou did not resist or shrink, A bright smile is always on his face.
I have to say that my heart is really strong.
It is also a child.
Why do some children jump from a building to commit suicide when facing difficulties; Some are optimistic, optimistic and open-minded? I think a highly praised comment on the Internet gave a good answer: because the world we have seen is different, the growth environment is also different.
I think so.
Children who have seen the world are different from those who have not.
The children who have seen the world will not be surprised.
Harvard headmistress Drew Foster once said in a speech: “The breadth of a person’s life determines his excellence”, and the breadth of a person’s life often depends on the world he has seen.
For most people, the South Pole is out of reach.
However, Simba, a 5-year-old boy, has already been to the South Pole.
Because of his father’s work, Simba has been traveling with his father since he was 3 years old…
During the trip, Simba often encountered unimaginable difficulties.
At the beginning, like other children, he would shrink back.
For example, when fishing for piranhas in the Amazon rainforest, there are countless mosquitoes in the jungle.
After being bitten, they will itch beyond ordinary people’s imagination, but they cannot catch them.
Simba was bitten and cried loudly, clamoring to go home.
His father said to him, “Being brave is not to be afraid, but to persist in doing it after being afraid.” Accompanied by his father, Simba learned to be as patient as an adult, overcame mosquito bites and caught piranha.
At the same time, Simba also understood for the first time that we need to be strong in the face of difficulties.
Travel brings Simba not only strength, but also independence.
My father signed up for Simba’s summer camp.
Simba would carefully pack his luggage according to the list on the list.
He said, “I can try my best to be alone and take care of myself.” Children who have seen the world believe that there are always more ways than difficulties.
As long as they persist, they will be able to overcome them.
Even if they can’t overcome it, they will not be depressed.
Because they know that there are innumerable ways of living in the world.
If one place fails, there are other worlds that can accommodate you.
They will not be limited to their own mistakes and the views of others, and will not easily abandon themselves when they are frustrated.
In the book “The Best Cultivation is on the Road”, the author Park Shan’e wrote: “Every encounter between her and her daughter is an experience; The warmth and love from strangers let children know how to be grateful; Even if they are deceived, children also learn to be tolerant and understand…
The more children experience, the more they fear and know how to move forward and backward, the less they will be trapped in the immediate difficulties.
The landscapes and things that we have seen and encountered will condense into the core of our spirit and help our children grow into tough themselves in the fertile soil of life.
Teacher Yin Jianli, a famous child expert who has seen the world and will change children’s lives, once said: If parents have conditions, they should take their children to travel as much as possible.
Don’t always think that children are still young and don’t understand anything.
Childhood is a special period of time.
Every child is a pure and beautiful original ecological world, with enigmatic potential and countless development possibilities…
In the journey, we will be able to find more children’s potential.
Taking children to see the world is not only to stimulate their imagination and creativity; It can let children know that there are a variety of life styles and life choices in the world.
Sometimes, a short journey, an accidental touch, may change the child’s life.
Ma Yun once told about his experience.
To learn English, young Ma Yun often went to the West Lake to be a free guide for foreigners.
As a tour guide, Ma Yun met the Morley family in Australia.
In 1985, with Molly’s help, Ma Yun traveled to Australia for 29 days.
When he was abroad, he saw the new world, he saw computers and learned a lot of knowledge…
Ma Yun said that his life had changed completely because he went abroad.
The children who have seen the stars and the sea can not stick to the heaven and earth above their heads, so that they can have heaven and earth in their hearts.
Only when children see more, try more, what they like and want will they be more clear.
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